Teenage Fever - @OVOJamesCraig
My favorite movies are Forest Gump and Titanic because I share a similar demise with the main characters. The demise is falling for someone and doing everything to be their knight with shining armor just be to be met with a opposite ending tearing up to the second verse of Teenage Fever because it can kind of be an example on how I have been with the recent women in my life. When I start sensing that connection it is a wrap she has got me plugged in like a damn iPhone charger and its sad because I knowI am putting myself in situations and ignoring the red flags. I would watch Forest Gump and think to myself why are we chasing after the thing that is hurting us and not helping us. I have constantly searched for the cliched one that people only seem to find in movies but if you took the time to figure out what you need not what you want from a another human being you can actually find your one. The one who is going to accept you for flaws and see you as perfect which is rare in our time. Why is it so rare ? well its because nowadays people are only giving conditioned love and not unconditional love. Ask someone who's in a relationship right now I bet 90% will say I love them but this I love them but that. I don't mean just blindly love a person and ignore red flags I'm saying love without looking for a benefit or catch.
Relationships should be looked at as a actual ship that you and your partner are sailing hoping they can be there through the calm waves and storms. If there is a hole in your boat (ie any problems) you can't just ignore it because eventually your relationship will sink like the titanic.You have to make sure your ship is taken care of with high maintenance(communication) the more time you check on things the less likely there are to be problems.Lately since my last relationship sunk I've just sat in the ocean and stopped swimming waiting for a life boat but in reality the one doesn't come in sailing to the rescue eventually I'll have to keep searching until I find a ship that has everything I need.